Holy Intimacy – The Heart of Jewish Marriage
The bestselling guide to Jewish marriage — now in Hebrew!
Holy
Intimacy
A groundbreaking guide that brings together Torah, Halacha, Chassidic philosophy, and contemporary psychology to illuminate the most sacred dimension of Jewish married life.
Holy Intimacy: The Heart of Jewish Marriage is a landmark work that addresses the intimate dimensions of married life with unprecedented depth, sensitivity, and clarity. For years it has served as the definitive resource for Jewish women seeking to understand the spiritual foundations behind the laws of family purity (טהרת המשפחה), the practice of mikvah, and the deeper meaning of physical connection within a Torah framework.
Rather than presenting dry legal rulings, this book illuminates the why behind the what — helping women embrace Halacha with joy, understanding, and genuine connection. It speaks to every stage of life: from brides at the beginning of their journey to women married for decades who wish to deepen and renew their bond.
Drawing from Kabbalistic and Chassidic teachings alongside modern psychological insight, Holy Intimacy offers a synthesis found in no other work — one that honors tradition while speaking directly to the questions and challenges women face today.
Chassidic Depth
A profound spiritual perspective on the sacred bond between husband and wife, rooted in Chassidic teachings and Kabbalistic wisdom.
Practical Guidance
Clear, direct advice for navigating the emotional and practical challenges of married life — from family purity to building lasting connection.
Medical Knowledge
Professional anatomical and medical information presented in clean, respectful language by women experts in the field.
Now Available
in Hebrew
After years as the definitive English-language resource on Jewish intimacy and marriage, Holy Intimacy is now available in Hebrew for the first time — titled אינטימיות מקודשת (Intimiut Mekudeshet).
The Hebrew translation was entrusted to Rabbi Amichya Even Yisrael — son of the legendary Rabbi Adin Even Yisrael (Steinsaltz) and chief editor at the Steinsaltz Center publishing house. His mastery of both languages and deep understanding of Torah scholarship ensured that every nuance of the original was preserved while reading naturally and fluently in Hebrew.
The Hebrew edition is a beautifully produced hardcover, making it an ideal personal resource or a meaningful gift for a bride, a friend, or yourself. It is currently available for pickup at locations throughout Israel.
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Words That Warm the Heart
As a physician and certified halachic advisor for Nishmat, I am keenly aware of how vital it is for women to have access to this kind of information, and how essential accurate knowledge is in preventing great suffering. I wholeheartedly recommend this book.
Morozow and Slonim lead their delicate dance with grace, gentleness, and a realistic approach. All of it is infused with holiness, practicality, and even humor. They address the most popular subject in the world, offering an inspiring perspective on intimacy in marriage… Such an important book.
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Frequently Asked
Questions
The Hebrew edition (אינטימיות מקודשת) is currently available for purchase online with pickup at locations throughout Israel, including Jerusalem, Bnei Brak, Kfar Chabad, Tzfat, Ashdod, Ashkelon, and many more. Order your copy here.
Whether you ordered a book for immediate pickup or ordered a gift box, as soon as the book is available for pickup at your chosen distribution location, you’ll receive an email letting you know.
Yes! The original English edition, Holy Intimacy: The Heart of Jewish Marriage, is available through major retailers including Amazon. This page focuses on the new Hebrew translation.
No. Holy Intimacy provides the emotional and spiritual why behind the laws of family purity and married life, so you can fulfill Halacha with joy and genuine connection rather than obligation alone.
Every Jewish woman. From a bride just beginning her journey to a woman married for decades who wants to refresh, deepen, and reconnect. The book speaks to women of all backgrounds and life stages with sensitivity and wisdom.
Absolutely. The book combines respectful, clean language with precise professional and halachic terminology. The guiding principle: modesty is not ignorance. Every explanation is direct and clear — no vague euphemisms — while maintaining complete dignity.
Not at all. While the content draws deeply from Chassidic thought, the language and guidance are relevant and accessible to every observant Jewish woman, regardless of community or background.